The New Age For A Midlife Crisis

In this harried era of electronic banking and lasermeans to them and how they can move gracefully
surgery, it seems fair to say that nearly all of us areonto the path meant for them. They are not waiting
living life in the fast lane. We love our fast food, speeduntil they are "midlife" to have their midlife crisis. They
dial, and instant messaging. Today's news isare much faster than their predecessors at grasping
yesterday's news before the sun sets. We areinformation and knowing what to do with it.
addicted to speed and if we knew we could getAnd yet, satisfyingly enough, the process is the same
away with it, we'd put the peddle to the metal andfor them-no one gets to skip any of the evolution
drive as fast as the wind blows.steps. Granted, the younger generation may be
It should come as no surprise then, that you need notevolving at a faster rate, but in order to gain the
wait for the ripe old age of forty-five to experience awisdom they seek they must go through their fitful
midlife crisis. I've noticed that many twenty-somethingsbouts of doubt and angst just the same as the rest of
are already intimately familiar with the phenomenonus. They must question everything they thought they
Wikipedia (free online encyclopedia) defines as "anknew and come up with their own answers. They
emotional state of doubt and anxiety in which a personmust feel that first uncomfortable, unexplainable nudge
becomes uncomfortable with the realization that life isthat becomes an unrelenting restlessness that can't
halfway over. It commonly involves reflection on whathelp but to make them listen to the inner voice that
the individual has done with his or her life up to thatwonders is this really my destiny? Is this really all I can
point, often with feelings that not enough wasdo for the planet and humankind?
accomplished. The individuals experiencing such mayI am encouraged. Their waking pain will be the earth's
feel boredom with their lives, jobs, or their partners, andgain. And maybe, just maybe, they will evolve at a
may feel a strong desire to make changes in thesepace fast enough to save the world.
areas."Copyright 2007 - Mary M. Bauer. All Rights Reserved
I don't see this as a bad thing. Many young people areWorldwide.
already deep into the process of examining what life