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What's Wrong With A Little Porn?

A little while ago I called an old friend toexperienced if he was caught with another
say hello, and the conversation turned to mywoman.
involvement in helping the sexually broken.
After I shared of my 20 year struggle withAnother wife of a man who struggles with sex
sex addiction, my friend said "well, I'm noaddiction writes: My husband and I have been
sex  addict,  I'm  just  a casual porn user!"married for a little over one year. He had a
problem with pornography and has now been
Today there are many who call themselvesclean for over two years. To this day I
"casual porn users", or CPUs as I call them.struggle with the pain of this, and I don't
They indulge in porn occasionally, maybe justknow how to recover. I ask God to take the
a few times a year so they don't see apain away so that we might be intimate
problem with it. After all it's just pictureswithout me remembering what he has done. I
and no one else will see; how can anyone gethave forgiven him but I hurt so much. I will
hurt?never be that picture, and how do I know he
doesn't expect me to? I am to be loved, and
In Matthew 5:27 Jesus said: You have heardhow am I to satisfy a husband who can be
that it was said 'You shall not commitsatisfied by a picture of some fantasy woman
adultery' but I say to you that everyone whoI will never be, a picture of someone who
looks at a woman with lust for her haswill never be his wife? Men should know that
already committed adultery with her in hisif they have a wife, or plan to get married
heart.someday that it really does hurt her. My
husband has grieved with me over the pain I
From Jesus' piercing words we know that tohave. Believe it or not it affects our sex
lust after other women or men is to commitlife, and I can't keep it from entering my
emotional and spiritual adultery. Havinghead...every  time.
self-sex while looking at pictures of naked
women is taking this sin of adultery to theOne of the biggest lies Satan whispers is "a
next level; it's adding sexual experience tolittle lust won't hurt you; go ahead, its
lust,  pouring  gas  on  the  fire.just you and pictures. No one will know." The
truth is that "just a little porn" is playing
What might your wife say if you approacheda big part in taking out many marriages. At a
her and said "honey, this year I'm going to2003 meeting of the American Academy of
commit adultery just three times. Once thisMatrimonial Lawyers, two thirds of the 350
month, again in July and one last time indivorce lawyers who attended said Internet
December. But I won't touch anyone, I'm justporn contributed to more than half of the
going to masturbate to pictures of otherdivorce cases they handled. They also said
naked women. But it's just me and picturesthat "pornography had an almost non-existent
and I won't actually have sex with anotherrole in divorce just seven or eight years
person.  Okay?"ago."
Obviously your wife would be angry and deeplyMy friend, you may not be a sex addict, but
hurt. Why? Because she knows true love comesif you're dabbling in porn you're committing
from the heart, and you're taking your love,adultery and hurting your wife. You're also
which you've promised is hers alone, andhollowing out your soul and wasting your
giving  it  to  another.character. "Casual porn use" is little
different from sexual addiction, and it may
I know one wife who walked in on her husbandbe worse. Those who struggle with sex
while he was masturbating with with porn.addiction often hit a hard bottom fast, which
Seeing her husband having sex with himself,forces them to get help quicker. I've seen
with pornographic magazines spread out on theCasual Porn Users who've taken their sin well
floor in front of him broke her heart. Theinto middle age. It doesn't need to be this
trauma this couple went through was littleway...
different from what they would have



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