| Sometimes, no matter how much we want something, | | | | One very important path to take in surrendering, is to |
| we won't get it. It doesn't seem to matter that we | | | | offer your help to others in similar situations as you. |
| spend time doing things we love in order to raise our | | | | You don't have to necessarily help them with money, |
| vibrations, it sometimes doesn't matter that we believe | | | | but offer kind words, prayer, support, love, etc... to |
| with all of our hearts that everything will be ok. | | | | them. You could even offer to help them clean. |
| Sometimes it's not. Why, then? What more can we | | | | Something that may seem simple and trivial to you |
| do? The answer, although I know it's easier said than | | | | may mean a lot to them. Spend your time with them |
| done, is to just surrender. If you're at the point when | | | | offering your help. When you do this, you are letting |
| you start to feel frustrated, then surrender. And by | | | | your own ego go long enough to put others before |
| surrendering, I mean doing it truly. It's more than just to | | | | yourself. Sometimes when I struggle, I write articles like |
| say, "It's in your hands now, God". No, it takes more | | | | this that may (or may not) inspire people. I simply write |
| than that. | | | | and put my articles out there for free to share. I also |
| By truly surrendering, you must not only surrender your | | | | visit online support groups and forums and offer |
| desires, but your ego. It's ok to be a little vain | | | | advice and prayer to others in similar situations to me. I |
| sometimes, I've mentioned it before in my other articles, | | | | offer no personal opinions to anyone unless I am |
| but sometimes our ego becomes so large and we | | | | asked. Remember the "worst case scenario" I talked |
| don't even realize it. Our ego may be trapped inside of | | | | about? I have met people who are experiencing |
| us subconsciously without our even knowing. So in | | | | worse than I. I pray for them most of all. You can do it |
| order to truly manifest, sometimes we have to realize | | | | as well. Offer all the time and support you can to |
| that our ego is too big and we must let it go. If you | | | | others. If their struggles start to remind you of your |
| have done every thing possible to manifest something | | | | own, push it aside. Do not pass personal judgement on |
| or someone, and have seen no evidence that it is | | | | to them, or you will be letting your ego out. |
| working, then you can do nothing else but surrender. | | | | After time, you will find yourself worried less about |
| But like I said, it is easier said than done. | | | | your own problems. By helping others, you will also be |
| So how do you "let go" of your ego? How do you | | | | getting rid of any stored bad karma you may have. |
| surrender it to the Universe? First things first, I want | | | | You will also start to feel more grateful the things you |
| you to think of the worse case scenario should you | | | | do have. Your wants and desires will become less |
| NOT get what you are trying to manifest. Think of the | | | | important to you, you will just be happy when those |
| worse thing that would happen if you don't get your | | | | you have helped are learning how to heal. You |
| way. Does it fill you with dread and fear? Sadness? | | | | yourself will find yourself healing as well. You may not |
| But guess what, that "worse case scenario" hasn't | | | | even realize it at first. By helping others, you are helping |
| happened yet, has it? No matter what you are | | | | yourself. It doesn't always have to be other people, |
| experiencing now, it could always be worse. | | | | you can help animals as well. If you find an insect in |
| Remember that. No matter how badly off you are | | | | your house, don't kill it. Remember that all life is sacred |
| right now, there is someone else out there | | | | and that this world belongs to all creatures, not just |
| experiencing an even worse scenario. So how can | | | | you. Let go of that ego. |
| you avoid something even worse happening to you? If | | | | Once you start praying for others more than yourself, |
| you have been fighting and fighting and still see no | | | | it is proof to the God and the Universe that you're |
| signs of winning, then what's stopping you from | | | | letting go of your ego and that you are truly |
| surrendering? Your ego won't let you? Well obviously | | | | surrendering. And then, before you know it, life will be a |
| you need another tactic since whatever you're doing | | | | lot better for you than it once was. The changes may |
| now isn't winning you your prize. Are you going to | | | | come subtle, but if you have truly surrendered, they will |
| keep on fighting a battle that you can't seem to win, or | | | | come. Someday looking back, you may even wonder |
| are you going to surrender and let the Higher Powers | | | | why you were so frustrated in the first place. |
| of the Universe take care of it? | | | | |