| So the engagement has finally come and you are | | | | from the norm. |
| ready to start the planning on your dream wedding. | | | | *Mother-in-Laws are overbearing and will ruin the |
| Every girl has dreamed of the perfect wedding. Big | | | | wedding. |
| Church, Fancy White Gown, Men in Dinner Tuxedo's, | | | | *Better site for the Honeymoon location. |
| Flowers everywhere, now society has this new idea. | | | | So the Traditional Wedding is the route you want to |
| The Destination Wedding. Which do you choose, | | | | go. Well be forewarned there are several advantages |
| Traditional or New Age. Big blowout event or small | | | | and disadvantages to this as well. The cost of the |
| intimate setting with close friends and family. | | | | rehearsal dinner and the reception have to be |
| My wife and I are wedding coordinators that have | | | | calculated. The guest from out of town have to be put |
| coordinated and participated in both types of | | | | up in a local hotel. So why spend the expense. |
| weddings. We have been the Bridesmaids and | | | | *The Family generally does not have to travel as far |
| Groomsmen in the local society wedding. We have | | | | and are local. |
| been the Bridesmaid and Groomsmen in weddings on | | | | *Your traditional minister can perform the ceremony. |
| the beach and by a mountain stream. | | | | *Your dreams of the Perfect White Church Wedding |
| All of these adequately fit the individuals that had them. | | | | can be fulfilled. |
| The couple in the mountains would have been | | | | *Old friends and family acquaintances will be at the |
| miserable in a large Church wedding. Likewise the | | | | wedding. |
| Couple in the large Church wedding would have had | | | | *You prefer short amounts of time to be spent with |
| an inadequate feeling had they not hosted this lavish | | | | many different individuals. |
| event. So what is really the difference. | | | | No matter which you choose, make sure that you are |
| The first thought is that the small wedding is cheaper. | | | | well informed and have read sites such as and These |
| Don't be fooled by this at all. Generally speaking this | | | | sites will provide insight into your coming decision and |
| wedding will have family and friends being transported | | | | outline how others have dealt with this difficult decision. |
| to a resort destination, causing the cost of | | | | As I get older and purportedly wiser I wish my wife |
| accommodations and food to increase. The wedding | | | | and I's Large Church Wedding would have been a |
| party is also there in the same location as the | | | | South Pacific Destination wedding. Then I get out the |
| honeymoon site. So why use this option: | | | | old Wedding Photo Album and see all of the relatives |
| *You don't want family an friends involved in the | | | | who were at the wedding and are no longer with us |
| Ceremonies at all. | | | | and am glad that we had the Large Church Wedding. |
| *You want to have a close knit wedding and get to | | | | Make sure to Consider all details and take time to |
| enjoy everyone involved in it. | | | | make this decision. It will define you as a couple |
| *You are looking for something that is simply different | | | | starting into your new lives together. |