Twin Flames, Soul Mates & New Age Romance - More Myth Than Reality

The only truly fulfilling and perfect love is self-love.A twin flame or soul has been defined as a soul who
Many of us want to find our "soul mate," a term oftenwascreated at the same time as you and who may
usedto imply that there is one perfect partner for eachbe your "otherhalf." Based on our research we feel
individual.this definition of twin soulsis the result of earthbound
Metaphysically defined, a soul mate is simply someonethinking. We don't "pair off" withonly one partner in the
youhave known in a prior existence. Each person mayspirit world. Pairing off here on Earthand hoping for a
havehundreds or even thousands of soul mates.lifetime relationship with the same partneroften seems
Edgar Cayce, one of the most successful psychicsmotivated by a fear of being alone and/or a fearof
and medicalintuitives ever in the United States, statedabandonment.
many times that thereisn't just one person out thereA different definition of a twin soul could be a soul
who is perfect for you. Heexpressed in his readingsmate withwhich you have shared many lifetimes and,
that there are many love relationshippossibilities forthrough thoseexperiences, perfected the relationship.
each person.This soul is one ofthe most ideal soul mates for
When you meet a soul mate, you may feel like youyou-assuming you both getyour current personalities
know theperson but you can't quite place from where.and hang-ups out of the way.
Your souls kneweach other in a different time andIn his book Edgar Cayce on Soul Mates, Kevin J.
place, although your presentpersonalities usually don'tTodeschisuggests yet another definition: "The primary
remember the details. You may havebeen lovers,distinctionbetween soul mates and twin souls is that
siblings, relatives, friends, acquaintances, coworkers,orsoul mates arebrought together as a means of
even enemies. You may instantly like or even love theassisting both people in soulgrowth and twin souls
person,or you may instantly dislike him or her.often come together in an effort toachieve a joint task
Soul mate relationships that develop into loveor a united work."
relationshipstake many different forms, depending onCayce also indicated that twin souls are not always
the karmic reasonsthe couple has reunited again. Theromanticallyinvolved and that there is more than one
present life interaction alsodepends on how much oftwin soul for eachperson.
their own baggage they've workedthrough, how muchHence, while most people associate a soul mate with
they take responsibility for their behaviorand their lives,romance,the main purpose has to do with personal
and how aware and honest they are withthemselvesgrowth, often throughtrials and challenges. In fact, many
and others.of our clients who have beenin soul mate relationships
There is always a reason for two souls reuniting. Itsay they are hesitant to get into anotherone, yet they
may bedue to unfinished business, such as one owingrealize that they're here on earth primarily to learn,not
the other insome important way. It may be in the formjust to get what feels good.
of a project theyare to complete together, such as the(Additional information about soul mates and twin
birth of and caring for achild. Sometimes it's a test, toflames canbe found here: )
see if they can interact withouthurting each other.How do you know you've found a relationship soul
Some souls reunite simply for the purpose of enjoyingmate?
eachother again and have little or no negative karmaSometimes it involves intense feelings from the very
to workthrough. They may have earned thisstart,other times it's not so obvious. Are you sexually
relationship of harmonythrough many lifetimes ofcompatible?
working through their conflicts.Is there lots of passion in your relationship? What
These are the kind of relationships sometimesabout trustand mutual respect? Do you share the
portrayed inromance novels. Many of us fantasizesame views about loveand relationships? It's possible
about having these kindsof relationships, where there'sto determine how compatibleyou are with another
little conflict and an excess oflove, admiration,person through numerology, astrology,handwriting
acceptance, and respect. Few of us,unfortunately,analysis, and past life regression.
experience them.