Help in Finding God's Will For Major Life Decisions Part 1 of 3 Parts

->will (as stated in Philippians 2:13) give you desires that
Deception: It Can Happen to Youare from him so that the more you grow in your love
Don't bury your head in the sand: it is frighteningly easyfor God, the more the deep desires bubbling within you
to fall into deception. Even more devastating is thatwill have been put there by God himself.
anyone deluded is completely unaware of it. Those inThe obvious truth is that both sides of the coin - all the
the greatest danger are the ones who think it couldn'ttests and pain and trials, and all the blessings - are in
happen to them. Those who murdered their Messiahthe Bible.
were appalled that their ancestors had killed God'sWe can rob ourselves if we are not expecting earthly
prophets. They were certain they would never doblessings. When Jesus walked this planet, many got
such a thing.their miracle from him solely because their faith that
The great apostle Paul wrote:God will bless them fired them to keep pushing through
1 Corinthians 4:4 My conscience is clear, but that doesall the obstacles.
not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me.On the other hand, there are dangers in expecting
Let these Scriptures chill your spine:continual ease. Jesus warned us to count the cost.
Proverbs 16:2 All a man's ways seem innocent to him,We find Barnabas and Paul "strengthening the disciples
but motives are weighed by the LORD.and encouraging them to remain true to the faith. . . ."
Proverbs 16:25 There is a way that seems right to aI've stopped mid-verse. So far there seems nothing
man, but in the end it leads to death.different here from normal prosperity doctrine. But let's
Jeremiah 17:9 The heart is deceitful above all thingsread the entire verse to discover how they
and beyond cure. Who can understand it?strengthened and encouraged them:
Matthew 24:24 For false Christs and false prophetsActs 14:22 strengthening the disciples and encouraging
will appear and perform great signs and miracles tothem to remain true to the faith. "We must go through
deceive even the elect - if that were possible.many hardships to enter the kingdom of God," they
Matthew 25:44,46 They also will answer, 'Lord, whensaid.
did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger orTo embrace the full teaching of Scripture we must
needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not helpavoid both the mindset of always expecting God's will
you?' . . . Then they will go away to eternal punishmentto be scary and the mindset of always expecting
James 1:22 Do not merely listen to the word, and soGod's will to be deliriously easy and filled with more
deceive yourselves. . . .thrills than Santa Claus' magic cave.
James 1:26 If anyone considers himself religious andGod's will is always the best we could possibly
yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, heexperience and to settle for anything else is as smart
deceives himself . . .as shaving with a chainsaw. But our long-term
Avoid Presumptions About God's Willhappiness and our short-term pleasure and ease are
If we are to truly hear from God, it is essential that weusually oceans apart. Our wonderful Lord wants our
avoid the trap of blindly assuming that if it is contrary topermanent happiness, not some sweet fizz that turns
our longings it must be God's will. It is equally critical thatsour. We are so often like children wanting to
we not go the other way and automatically assumesentence ourselves to a lifetime of gorging ourselves
that if it seems certain to make us happy, it must beon no other food but chocolate and ice cream; having
God's will for us.no idea that their conception of heaven would slowly
Few Christians - maybe none - have walked with Godturn to hell.
for long without sometimes mishearing him becauseAs God's ability to see the future soars high above our
what the Lord was seeking to tell them was contraryown, so his knowledge of what will make us eternally
to their expectations. Scripture insists that as the skyhappy is far above our guesses. Consequently, we
soars way beyond our reach, so are God's ways farneed to look to God to guide us, and avoid
beyond our own (Isaiah 55:8). Yet still wepresumptions.
unconsciously develop presumptions about God'sWhether positive or negative, presumptions are
ways that seriously distort what he is seeking to tell us.dangerous because they can close our minds to things
No matter how sincere, our preconceptions blind us toGod wants to tell us and they can also cause us to
possibilities, without us realizing it. They have horrifyingseize what we suppose to be God's will when it isn't
potential to send us spinning into delusion.at all. To use marriage as an example, there are those
Mindsets, whether positive or negative, canwho think to themselves, "I long to marry, so it's
dangerously cloud our perception of reality and ofprobably God's will for me never to marry," or "There's
what people are really saying. For example, there area degree of attraction between us but I wouldn't want
people whose tragic pasts have convinced them thatus to marry, so God probably wants us to marry."
they are unlovable. Some of them end up married toThen there are others who tell themselves, "I love this
adoring partners and yet their mindset so blinds themperson and feel I couldn't live without him/her, so
that they continue to be convinced that they are notmarriage must be God's will." In either case, one needs
loved, no matter what extremes their partners go to infurther confirmation of God's guidance. We must
trying to prove love in word and action. In fact, manyconfuse neither wishful thinking, nor fear or pessimism
such people are so blinded to all the evidence thatwith God's leading.
they deliberately act obnoxiously in an attempt to driveHow to Avoid Misinterpreting the Bible
their loved one away because that seems less painfulEvery Christian leader worth his salt - or to put it even
than what they consider the inevitable shame of beingbetter, everyone who is salt - stresses the vital role of
dumped. They can even be doted on by the mostthe Bible in divine guidance. The necessity of verifying
loving and most important person in the entire universethat any supposed word from God is thoroughly
- Almighty God - and they still can't accept it and,consistent with the written Word of God is so obvious
despite everything, they continue to feel utterly unloved.that telling that to most of us is as superfluous as telling
A positive mindset can be just as dangerously blinding.us to breathe. You'll find this webpage crammed with
With tragic consequences, young people can feel soScriptures. What is seldom explained, however, is that
invincible that they are certain that no warnings ofunless our heart is right, a thorough Bible knowledge
danger apply to them.and deep reverence for the Bible will let us down -
So let's briefly explore how mindsets can hinder usbadly.
from hearing God's voice and discovering his will for us.The devil used the holy Word of God to tempt Jesus.
Many of us fall into the rut of always expecting God'sIt was central to his plot to lure the Son of God from
will to be challenging, scary, painful. The Bible is drippinghis divine mission. Scripture convinced devout Bible
with evidence for this expectation. We are to lovescholars that Jesus was a demon-possessed
God more than any other person or thing. This can bemadman they should kill for the good of the nation. No
divinely tested, as it clearly was for Abraham when hedoubt, it was also his knowledge of Scripture that
was asked to sacrifice his precious son. Jesus wasplayed a role in firing up Saul to eradicate every trace
continually asking people to give up everything toof Christianity from the planet.
follow him. An entire book of the Bible is devoted toBible knowledge is spiritual wealth. Give someone a
Job's horrific test. We know God's will for Jesus wasmillion dollars and the vast possibilities range from using
terrifyingly painful. Jesus and the rest of the Newit to achieve enormous good, right through to
Testament warn us to expect severe persecution.destroying himself with it. Wealth - be it spiritual or
Scripture tells us to rejoice when trials hit, becausematerial - tests a person's character.
they build character.In a webpage for Christians agonizing over the morality
As if hundreds of Bible verses were not enough toof divorce, I briefly mentioned various Scriptural
make us expect the worst, many of us have theinterpretations on the subject by sincere scholars.
additional pressure of being prone to feelings of guilt,Rather than being enlightening, it was frustratingly
depression, inferiority, or pessimism. A friend of mineconfusing. Amazingly, however, it turns out that feeling
shares his experience, which is an extreme exampleconfused and incapable of correctly interpreting God's
of how preconceptions distort our ability to hear fromWord is a vital leg of one's journey to hearing from
God.God.
I had an abusive father who only sent me to church toThose who suppose they have all the answers are
get a free baby sitter. I often looked at God as similarthe ones least likely to hear from God.
to my father. I stopped attending church when I wasPonder the implication of Jesus' prayer:
13. I tried to be a good Christian for a while, but beforeMatthew 11:25 "I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven
long I plunged from being a good kid to being a meanand earth, because you have hidden these things from
spirited, hateful person.the wise and learned, and revealed them to little
I tried numerous times to get back to God but eachchildren. . . ."
time I hit a wall of fear that was so unbearable that IThose who are wise in their own eyes are in grave
felt compelled to turn away from God. I often tolddanger of spiritual blindness and deception.
myself that this fear was God's punishment for my1 Corinthians 3:18-20 Do not deceive yourselves. If any
gross sins and that it proved I was beyondone of you thinks he is wise by the standards of this
forgiveness. I had a lot of bad thoughts about God thatage, he should become a "fool" so that he may
I had no control over. As a result, I often slipped intobecome wise. For the wisdom of this world is
depression. I would then get on medication and returnfoolishness in God's sight. As it is written: "He catches
to my sinful lifestyle.the wise in their craftiness"; and again, "The Lord
It seemed the only way I could function was toknows that the thoughts of the wise are futile."
eliminate God from my life. I did fine for a while. I gotOn the other hand, wondrous possibilities emerge for
married and had a son. I got off drugs and alcohol. Ithose with the humility to realize their "foolishness" - the
even started a business. For the first time in my life Inatural human blindness to spiritual things - and their
was finally happy. I thought I had completely erasedneed of divine help in understanding biblical truth:
my past.Psalm 25:9 He guides the humble . . . and teaches
Then I began to think that all these good things werethem his way.
from God. I told myself, "It can't be! There is no God!"Even someone so spiritual and knowledgeable that he
"Why do so many people love God?" I puzzled, "Heactually wrote part of the Bible, recognized his own
wants only to send everyone to hell." Wondering if Ineed to pray for understanding of God's Word:
had overlooked something, I explored a number ofPsalms 119:18 Open my eyes that I may see wonderful
websites and learned a lot about God. I asked myself,things in your law.
"Why do I despise God so much?" Within a couple ofThe Lord intentionally makes his Word difficult to
days I was once again overwhelmed by fear. I toldunderstand to shake us out of complacency and
myself, "This fear is surely God again; I remember thisinspire us to passionately seek his understanding of his
from years ago." I immediately cried and beganWord, like Jesus' disciples who couldn't understand his
repenting. I vowed that I would face my fear of God. Iparables and so came to him for understanding.
turned my back on everything evil in my life.An intellectual approach to the Bible, no matter how
I started reading the Bible but I was afraid that it wouldstudious and informed, is never enough.
only confirm that I'm condemned. Before long, it felt like1 Corinthians 2:14 The man without the Spirit does not
everything in the Bible somehow condemned me. Myaccept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for
mother worried about my spiritual state and visited methey are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand
a lot. I would often tell her, "Look, this verse right herethem, because they are spiritually discerned.
proves I'm going to hell!" We would then go over it andDiscerning biblical truth either takes us to the height of
discover its meaning was totally different. I couldn'tspiritual intimacy or we will drift into delusion, no matter
figure out why I could read something and get such ahow much, like the devout scholars in Jesus' day, we
condemning message from it. I would often stopthink ourselves the epitome of orthodoxy.
reading the Bible because oppressive fear wouldPaul commented on how Jews could study the Old
come over me.Testament with great thoroughness and still never
I bought a book about spiritual warfare. All was fine forrealize that Jesus is the Messiah it prophesies. He put it
a while, then even that book seemed to bethis way:
condemning me and in despair I put it down. Eventually,2 Corinthians 3:15-16 Even to this day when [the books
I forced myself to open the book again. I re-read theof] Moses [the first five books of the Bible] is read, a
condemning sentence I had underlined. To my surprise,veil covers their hearts. But whenever anyone turns to
I couldn't find anything in it that could lead me to feelthe Lord, the veil is taken away. (Emphasis and
condemned.explanatory text, mine.)
I began to notice that as I read, fear would sweepTo know the will of God, it is not enough merely to
over me, causing me to throw the book down withoutknow the words of Scripture, you must know the
finishing the sentence.Author, being on the most intimate terms with him. To
I eventually learned that the fear and condemnationdo the will of God, it is not enough merely to know the
were not from God, as I had always thought, but wereanswer, you must be in spiritual union with the Answer.
from the enemy. This discovery changed everything. ICountless thousands of sincere, Bible-loving Jews
looked back on all the things in my life that I hadlonging for their Messiah rejected Jesus as their Savior
considered were from God and realized that theybecause he did not match their Bible-based - yes,
were not from him at all.Bible-based - preconceptions. Much of their
My friend's experience might be far more extrememisunderstanding was due to confusing the Messiah's
than yours but any preconception you have aboutsecond coming with his first coming, and much of that
God and his will is just as capable of distorting whatwas probably because their longing to be delivered
God wants to tell you, and, like my friend, whereverfrom hardship was greater than their longing to be
you look in the Bible and Christian messages you'll finddelivered from their sin.
much to confirm your presumption - whether it is reallyGod made it so difficult to recognize Jesus' true
there or not.identity that when Peter made this discovery, Jesus
Most Christians who don't habitually expect God's willexclaimed, "Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for
to be unpleasant, fall into the opposite trap. Again therethis was not revealed to you by man, but by my
is much scriptural encouragement for this view.Father in heaven. . . ." (Matthew 16:17).
Abraham was renowned for his wealth; Isaac andHere's my poem. I hope it's not too long for you:
Jacob enjoyed great material success; Job was verySpiritual concerns are spiritually discerned.
rich, Solomon was mind-bogglingly wealthy and many(Well, it almost rhymes.)
of the Bible heroes were kings.For proof of this great truth, we need go no further
A study of the Old Testament use of the wordthan this: evil spirits were far better at knowing who
blessing is astounding. The way experts ascertain theJesus was, than were all the priests, spiritual leaders
precise meaning of a word is to find as many differentand Bible scholars combined. Demons knew in an
occurrences of the word as they can and examineinstant what the best theological minds could not figure
each context. Do this and you will discover that almostout about Jesus.
every time, the word blessing refers not to spiritualSo a critical step towards finding the mind of God on
blessings but to material prosperity - many children,any issue is to recognize that insights into spiritual
overflowing harvests, livestock breeding like there wasmatters will not be attained merely by the intellectual
Viagra in their hay (Scriptutes).process of studying the relevant Scriptures and
The Bible is filled with promises of joy, God's love forreaching one's own conclusion as to what they mean.
us, answered prayer, miracles, healings and victory.There must be a humble recognition of one's
John 16:24 . . . Ask and you will receive, and your joydependence upon divine illumination of God's Word.
will be complete.This naturally leads to fervent, faith-filled prayer for
Psalms 37:4 Delight yourself in the LORD and he willdivine revelation but, as we will discover, there are
give you the desires of your heart.additional heart attitudes to be mastered.
Not only will God give you what your heart desires, he