Conversion to Judaism

The First Word: Welcome, immigrants to Judaismspeech and assembly and a more personal
understanding of the value of our constitutional
What do the divisive debates between Americansprotections from governmental intrusion.
over immigration policy and within the Jewish worldLikewise, I know from experience that those who
over conversion have in common? As a rabbi whochoose to become Jewish typically are more
recently became an American, and who is activelyknowledgeable about their adopted religion, more
involved in counseling potential converts to Judaism, Iappreciative of the similarities and differences
have noticed that these seemingly disconnectedbetween the various faiths, and tend to be more
controversies raise similar questions.genuine participants in the rituals, obligations and tenets
If there are jobs that go wanting, should we open theof our tradition.
door wider to those who want to fill those jobs? If theWhether they were attracted by the philosophy, the
family is already established here with children born,history, the ritual practices, or they wanted to further
should the journey to citizenship involve fewer tollexpress their love for a spouse, I would be more than
booths?pleased to have the pews filled with converts. For the
If intermarriage, low birthrates and secularization yieldmost part, they are adults who have made adult
fewer Jews, should we make it easier for others todecisions.
adopt our religion? If the husband is a Jew by birthIMMIGRANTS TEND to make great Americans;
should the wife's conversion to Judaism be simplified?converts tend to make great Jews - and for similar
If America is truly the melting pot and if becoming areasons.
Jew literally means joining the wider family, then what'sGiven this, should it be permanently disqualifying if you
the fuss?entered the US without benefit of a visa if you now
While I am a Jew by birth, I'm an American by choice,are willing to pay some kind of sanction (fine or taxes)
having become a citizen over a year ago. Maybeand go through a rigorous process to introduce the
more significantly, I have worked to guide dozens ofdetails and mandates of this democracy? Should there
Jews by choice on their journey leading to conversion. Ibe such a rigid bar to being able to call yourself a Jew
use the Internet as a vehicle to reach out to andor to become a member of a congregation of
attract those who might be consider joining the Jewishwhatever denomination you choose? In modern times,
people.when religious affiliation is not obligatory, should it be so
MANY WONDER why someone not born Jewishburdensome to join a synagogue?
would want to become a Jew, and whether someoneI was born a Jew; I was not born Orthodox,
who grew up in another tradition can truly embrace aConservative or Reform.
new one. My own experience as an immigrant hasShould we really be using Halacha as a weapon
helped me understand the possibilities for suchagainst people who want to convert? Shouldn't we be
profound transitions.looking for ways in which Halacha can be used as a
I will always be a Brazilian because I love the hotbridge for the acceptance of converts? Furthermore,
weather, the warm people, and I have wonderfulwhen one approaches a synagogue, why is it that the
memories from my childhood. But I chose to becomesincerity of the convert is always questioned, yet we
an American for a myriad of reasons influenced bytake for granted that the motives of the born Jew are
adult rationales and justifications. I encounteredlegitimate?
America's history, constitution, Pledge of Allegiance andDon't get me wrong. I am not in favor of an open
national anthem through mature, experienced eyes andborder or a free pass to citizenship. And I do not wish
ears. I am most confident that I will be - maybe alreadyto see a drive-in conversion window at the
have become - a knowledgeable and activeneighborhood shul.
participant in my democracy.There should be realistic standards that help the
I made sure I knew where the polling place was a fullconvert establish the basis for a positive Jewish
two weeks ahead of the first opportunity I had to vote.identity, and there should be serious probing and
And I was one of the first in line on that Tuesday inassessment of the correctness, fluency and sincerity
November. And unlike the folks on the streetof the answers. But the accident of birth does not
interviewed by Jay Leno, I know the name andmake someone different or special and does not and
recognize the face of the secretary of defense, andshould not provide the title of gatekeeper.
the senators from my state (Mississippi) and theI recoil at the self-styled patriots - those minutemen, or
mayor of my town (Hattiesburg).is it minyanmen - who want the day laborers corralled
My experience is hardly unique. I truly believe thatand sent home or who want only purebreds speaking
those who make the choice and who work towardfrom the bima or participating on the High Holy days.
attaining the goal of citizenship often become amongMy adopted country needs and will thrive on the
the most involved and informed citizens.infusion of new immigrants as much as my birth religion
More importantly, those who left other societies andneeds and will thrive with the addition of those who
have chosen to work for that goal in America have achoose to worship with me. I welcome them as should
more immediate appreciation of the blessings of freeyou.